Lust.Punkt. l Beratung. Coaching. Therapie für Sexualität und Beziehungsdynamik

certified mediator,

Coaching und Supervision

Jörn Valldorf

certified mediator, Coaching und Supervision


In summer 2019, I fulfilled a big dream: I moved to Berlin. Living here means freedom for me first and foremost and makes it easy for me to go new ways. I feel at home in the queer scene here. I like people, their stories and experience the trust they place in me as a mediator and coach as a gift.

Until I trained as a mediator, I didn't like arguments. I experienced conflict as something burdensome or divisive. However, disputes can also unite and constructive solutions can emerge. For this to happen, the wishes and needs hidden behind the accusations and anger have to be recognised and discussed. As a mediator, it is my goal to support you in this process.

From my own experience I know how unhappy the "wrong job" or the "wrong centre of life" can make you. Often you are too caught up in yourself or too despondent to find a way out. I am happy to accompany you on your way to new shores and support you in becoming clear about your abilities and talents.

Unlike coaching, which focuses on your personal concerns, supervision focuses on your professional environment or your voluntary work.

Main focus

Individual and team supervision
Facilitation of team retreats
Professional change coaching
Mediation with a focus on:
Mediation in separations, conflicts in the world of work, 
Disputes in or with the (rainbow) family


+49 174 75 48 199


  • Training as a coach and supervisor at the Fokus Institut Berlin

  • Training as certified mediator at "Klären und Lösen" in Berlin

  • Editor-in-chief of "Spektrum der Mediation" and press and public relations officer at the Bundesverband Mediation e.V. (Federal Association of Mediation)

  • Honorary health advisor at KOSI. MA (KOSI.MA, the competence centre for sexually transmitted infections in Mannheim)

  • Many years of professional experience in change and transformation processes in a municipal administration

  • Freelance and permanent work with editorial offices of print media

  • Various courses in client-centred interviewing and counselling of LGBTIQ* people

  • Several years of self-experience