Main Focus

Relationship building

Sexual needs and self-determination

Finding identity

Fears, anger and shame in the relationship

(Un)lust in the relationship

Fetish, fantasies

non noramtive concepts

polyamory

Biography

I live for several years in Potsdam, but my heart still belongs to Berlin. Therefore, I work part-time as an employee in the outpatient care service for disabled. Aditionally I´m working as a sex and relationshiptherapist in berlin and potsdam. There is hardly a more complex topic that can influence us so much in our being, positively as well as negatively. We often identify with roles, values and ideas that we have been thaught and live in our systems. As a non-binary person of color who is living in an open relationship, dealing with conventional, normative ideas is nothing new to me. In addition, I have been and still am moving professionally and privately in kinky/queer scenes for several years. There I could obseve how many people are always looking and sometimes struggling for a balance between noramtiv patterns and individual freedom. Therefore, I´m familiar with the challenges in the areas of relationship design and kinky/queer lifestyles; whether monogamous, open, extended, triangle or BDSM with its many facets (D/s, TPE, EPE, SSC, RACK, etc.) and so on.

Resume 

• Worked as a support worker in outpatient care for the disabled, Berlin
• Heilpraktikerin („healing pactitioner“) restricted to the field of psychotherapy (permission by the health authority Tempelhof-Schöneberg, Berlin)

• Freelancer as sex- and realtionshiptherapist / -counsellor
  
• Training in relationship-dynamic sexual therapy at the Institute for Relationship Dynamics, Berlin - Freelance work as a sexual and relationship counsellor and psychological counsellor
• Master of Arts (M.A.) in Art and Theatre in the Social Sphere
• Bachelor of Arts (B.A.) in Art Therapy and Pedagogy