I am living in Potsdam for 5 years, but my heart still belongs to Berlin. Therefore, I work part-time as an employee in the outpatient care service for the disabled, as well as self-employed as a sex and relationship therapist. There is hardly a more complex topic that can influence us so much in our being, positively as well as negatively. We often identify with roles, values and ideas that we have been taught and live in our systems. As a pansexual woman, dealing with conventional, normative
ideas is nothing new to me. In addition, I have been moving professionally and privately in kinky/queer scenes for several years. There I could observe how many people are always looking and sometimes struggling for a balance between normative patterns and individual freedom. Therefore, I am familiar with the challenges in the areas of relationship design and kinky/queer lifestyles; whether monogamous, open, extended, triangle, or BDSM with its many facets (D/s, TPE, EPE, SSC, RACK, etc.).